Being a Diva in Second Life: More Than Style, It's an Attitude

 Being a Diva in Second Life: More Than Style, It's an Attitude

In the expansive and creative universe of Second Life, where pixels become dreams and identities take new forms, being a diva is much more than wearing a flawless skin or the latest virtual fashion release. Being a diva is about presence, an essence that commands attention with elegance, personality, and power.

It’s about crafting an image that speaks for itself. It’s turning your avatar into an expression of style, strength, and authenticity. A Second Life Diva is a model, stylist, artist, blogger — or all of the above. She knows the trends but isn’t afraid to break the rules. She doesn’t follow fashion: she creates fashion.

More than beauty, a diva carries history. Years (or intense months) of runway shows, contests, editorials, photo exhibitions, and brand collaborations. Every look has meaning. Every pose is a statement. She inspires not only with what she wears but with what she represents: a woman who takes up space, reinvents herself, and always shines.

When Being a Diva Was a Leap of Faith… and Still, We Sparkled.

There was a time — between 2009 and 2011 — when buying lindens was a real investment. Not everyone had access to international credit cards, and simply enrolling in a modeling course (which cost around 13,000 lindens) was a statement of commitment to the dream. Having that certificate wasn’t just about prestige — it was your ticket to apply for the most coveted fashion competitions on the grid.
But nothing came easy. Runway poses were scarce, and there were no walking HUDs like we have today. Mastering the runway took skill, creativity, and most of all, resilience.

Sponsors? Only the boldest, most persistent — and talented — would earn the honor of wearing an exclusive designer gown for the finals. Language barriers were real. And the virtual community itself could be tough.

So, we started blogging. What people now call “influencing” was, for us, a way to survive — to show our art, gain respect, and maybe earn that essential item for the next competition. Our blogs were our living portfolios.

We had to be creative, elegant, daring. No copying. No being "just another one." The hardest competition was with us — fighting the fear of not being good enough, of becoming too predictable.

And along the way, we watched brands come and go. We said goodbye to dear friends — some left the grid, others this life. But all of them left something behind. Inspiration. Strength. A silent push to keep going.


Photo 1 (top center): Who doesn't remember the revolution of finally having shadows in SL? I was mesmerized. Here, wearing a beautiful dress by Kunglers – September 2010. Photo 2 (top left): My very first blog post, back in August 2011, wearing a dress from one of the most famous brands at the time among beauty and fashion competitions: Angel Dessous. Photo 3 (botton left): Miss Azul contest — and that’s when I discovered I wanted to learn how to model... Spring 2010. Photo 4 (botton right): The realization of a dream — winning a fashion and beauty competition is incredibly challenging. I was finally a Miss! In this vibrant SL fashion world, I had one more check on my list — and my first exclusive gowns! Azul and Kunglers were perfect partners on this journey and have stayed with me all these years. I'm so grateful for their trust in me! (Winning photo in 2011, taken by none other than Strawberry Singh — now Strawberry Linden!) Photo 5 (top right): The first major upgrade to our avatars: mesh hands and feet, like those from SLink! And suddenly, rings and heels looked amazing!!! Somewhere around 2014...


Technology advanced every year and in 2012, the first mesh clothing changed everything. Then came mesh hands and feet — Slink brought us grace and detail. In 2014, the first mesh body from Maitreya launched, and we waited in long lines to buy it. Were texture-based clothes doomed? Group chats debated this fiercely.

In 2015, Catwa and Lelutka released the first mesh heads. In 2016, Bento technology changed the game forever. Lelutka introduced Simone. OMG! She’s almost 10 years old — and it feels like yesterday.

Photo 6 (top left): Mesh clothing. Now we could finally wear skirts without using prims to "close the gap" in the middle! And handbags with hand poses! The detailing was beginning! Somewhere in 2015... Photo 7 (bottom right): My last photo wearing a system skin from League (I loved that skin brand!) and layers — but already with a mesh body. Hair by Dura Hair — the Asian creators always nailed perfect hairstyles! Somewhere in 2016... Photo 8 (top center): My first mesh head — Catwa Gwen, in March 2016. I thought it was so cool, and I kept trying to find a skin that felt more like “me”... It wasn’t easy to adapt to the head HUDs, full of tiny details... Photo 9 (top right): Testing my first LeLutka head (Stella), in December 2016 — and I was amazed by how user-friendly the HUD was. A love story began… and I loved it even more because League was already adapting their skins to mesh heads! Photo 10 (bottom left): Just mesmerized by the shine and lighting effects of the BlackDragon viewer... a glimpse into the future in 2018...


SL became a playground of possibilities. Hair bases improved. Hair gained movement. Rings, necklaces, earrings — everything adapted to the new bodies. Our aesthetic evolved — without losing its bohemian soul. Improvements to the viewers, such as the possibilities of responsive lighting in BlackDragon, as well as being able to edit the body structure for perfect poses.

Then, at the end of 2019 and into 2020, the past came back dressed in future tech: Bakes on Mesh (BOM) brought back layer-based skins, now refined, reimagined, and ready for the new age. 


Photo 11 (top left): The revolution began with Simone — the very first Bento head in SL, giving us full control over facial structure. I loved her! I wore Simone from January 2017 until nearly the end of 2020. I’d love to see a re-release in BoM version — I have so many gorgeous makeups and details! I bet everyone here has their favorite head, right? Tell us yours in the comments!Photo 12 (top center): Sometime in 2018–2019, I decided to try the  Genus head, mostly to explore its skin realism. I loved it, but it didn’t feel like me... so I ended up using it only for specific modeling jobs when requested. I also found the HUD a bit tricky. Did you too? Photo 13 (top right): In January 2020, a new revolution arrived: heads with the return of layered skin technology — also known as BoM (Bakes on Mesh). So off I went again, trying to modernize, especially after LeLutka announced there would be no update for Simone. My heart was broken, but that’s when Erin entered my life... Photo 14 (bottom left): In October 2023, I decided to make a change. I never truly felt at home in Erin, but I noticed similarities between the EvoX Avalon head and Simone... and I liked it! I'm still wearing it to this day. Photo 15 (bottom right): And then came the magic of photography — combining SL, AI, and powerful editing tools. It’s impossible not to feel like the avatar is breathing! Photo by the talented Nemesis/Shantal (March 2025).


And today we currently have a combination of image editors with coupled Artificial Intelligence, doing wonderful work. What will be the limit to our creativity and expression within second life?
Today, we can be anything. Just like in real life, but better, with more color and lightness. And every avatar configuration is a calling card. A manifesto. A silent scream that says: “I’m here. I’m unique. And I’m a Diva. We are Divas"!

A Collective Space of Memories and Legacy.

This blog is more than a fashion showcase — it’s a living archive of our history. A collective space, created by divas and for divas, where each shared experience is a vital piece in the mosaic of what the fashion scene in Second Life has become.

Each week, one of us will share a memory piece, reliving not only her most brilliant moments but also the behind-the-scenes, the struggles, the growth, and the deep connections that shaped her journey.

We’ll honor iconic brands, visionary designers, unforgettable models, influential bloggers, and personalities who helped shape the virtual fashion industry. There’s room for everything: the looks that made us shine, the competitions that kept us up at night, the awkward moments that are now funny stories, and the runway shows that moved us to tears.

The Past is Inspiration. The Present is Celebration. The Future is Ours.

Welcome to our world!

Here, you’ll laugh, cry, remember, and feel inspired. You’ll discover untold stories — and recognize your own in every line.

Leave a comment. Share with others. Come back often.

And if you, too, are a diva in SL… get ready — this stage is yours as well.

With love,

Jeanie.

Comments

  1. Firstly, congrats on starting this wonderful collection of early SL models where many like myself can finally learn from, especially about its early years when being creative wasn't enough, but rather, ingenuity and originality were still the standard requirements for styling that could only come from, as you mentioned, its 'golden age' 2008-2010 ❤

    Secondly I already love your first post 'it's more than style...' as I too remember those fierce group debates over mesh sizes and if creators had the right or influence in how we wore their clothes due to its rigging etc, as well as limited walks/poses (before Dahriel 's Possessions came along and became every model's prayer answered). Your walk through SL fashion years and its evolution has truly brought some great memories for me as much as it also inspired me. Tysm for generously sharing that ❤

    And thirdly I feel as if I really do get to have a 'second chance' to learn from what I call the 'SL greats of modeling' (and why I'm thrilled to have already signed up to taking Naar 's training especially). Ty for staying in SL after so many years and wanting to share your stories and antidotes ❤

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  2. Thank you very much Emeline, for sharing with us your thoughts and your beautiful words of encouragement to our project. We have many ideas that we hope to share little by little on the blog and achieve that connection that you speak of the modeling world of yesterday with today, as everything in life left an apprenticeship that is an honor for us to share with newer models, who today are building another part of the history of this beautiful occupation in Second Life. We hope to see you here often and to share many activities and experiences with you! Hugs to you! ❤❤❤

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